I wonder why, in all the (extensive!) writings on the subject that I have read, I have not found an instance of anyone stalking their stalker. WHY hasn’t anyone ever hired a pit bull of a (former military?) PI and spied on/stalked/harassed their abuser? If I came into a lottery-type inheritance of unlimited funds, I would form a corporation and spend the rest of my life funding this type of thing FOR FREE for ACONs. And former spouses of narcs. And any former victims of narcs. Buy a billboard (fake name or someone else’s name!) in your narcissists home town, find the most horrendously ugly picture of the narc, blow it up, and just put it on the billboard. No info, no name (this would make a narcissist crazy – ugly and anonymous!). Buy a nanny-cam type of hidden camera and FILM THEIR NARC RAGES. Film the lies. Then blast them on Youtube or your own TV. Show the face under the mask. Stay just within the law, the same way they do, and give it back a gabillion times over.
Stalking a stalker would be the ultimate fun game. One person waylays them with a blocked-in parked car, while the other goes to the stalkers home and oh, I dunno – CLEANS IT TOP TO BOTTOM. Rearranges the furniture, vacuums, re-formats their hard-drive, wipes clean any vestige of the stalkee from the place. Remove photographs, paint a wall… enough to drive the narcissist out of their minds but who could go to the police and say ‘someone broke in to my house and cleaned it’!? With two (or more) people connected via cell phones, imagine the havoc you could wreak on these psychopaths lives. Hook up surveillance cameras to catch them leaving items on your front door. And then DO THE SAME THING. Bring a dead rat and drop it at THEIR front door. Show up at every. single. store. they go to during a day. Have friends in other states/counties/countries mail anonymous birthday cards to every friend of theirs, with that ugly picture, or clippings and copies of items that show the lies.
It would be easy enough to place a GPS tracker on a stalkers car while they are at work/in a bar/with their newest victim. Then imagine the fun you could have!! “There is no law saying me and my friends can’t come to this restaurant and annoy the fuck out of you!” Let the air out of one of their tires every week or so (twist off the valve stem cover, place a small piece of gravel inside the cover and twist it back on. Rock will press against the valve - Presto! Slow leak). Don’t pop the tire, just eeeeek out the air so they never know where it will happen. And never know which tire.
Set up a fake email account and contact one of them through one of the estranged parents sites. Groom them (we all know what to say to these people to hipnotize them into thinking we are their newest source of n-supply) Milk them for any information – spectacularly easy, a narcissists GOAL is to talk! Then once you have them pegged, let the fun begin. A narc would make such an easy target – they are completely predictable in every thing they say or do. A second email account (for stalking!) and bingo. You have your fun lined up for a month or more.
WHY ISN’T THERE A BUSINESS LIKE THIS?? There just has to be people with covert ops experience with time on their hands. Disability PTSD peeps, who want something to do that uses their professional skills and provides deep satisfaction.
I know that some say that spending time on revenge would damage the soul, or something like that. I don’t subscribe to that belief. Revenge is sweet. Slow, steady drive-them-over-the-edge revenge would be like a BALM to my soul. (there is a joke there with balm/bomb but I am too lazy to make it).
Too bad my narcs are dead/nearly dead. And I am old and stiff and unable to get under cars or climb ladders. But I provide this idea (this idea sends me to deep slumber at night, planning how I would start such a business if I had the funds! It’s awesome!) for your employment! Let us all know how it goes. We need the vicarious joy.